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-====== méichūxi: 没出息 - Unpromising, Pathetic, Good-for-nothing ====== +
-===== Quick Summary ===== +
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-  * **Summary:** Discover the deep cultural meaning behind **没出息 (méi chūxi)**, a powerful Chinese term used to describe someone as "unpromising," "pathetic," or "good-for-nothing." More than a simple insult, this word reflects profound cultural values about ambition, family honor, and societal expectations. This guide breaks down its usage in everyday life, from parental scolding to self-deprecating humor, providing a practical resource for any learner of Mandarin Chinese. +
-===== Core Meaning ===== +
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** méi chūxi +
-  * **Part of Speech:** Adjective +
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 5 +
-  * **Concise Definition:** Lacking ambition or promise; being worthless or good-for-nothing. +
-  * **In a Nutshell:** **没出息 (méi chūxi)** is a deeply resonant and critical term that goes far beyond "unsuccessful." It describes a person who lacks drive, ambition, and the will to improve their situation. It implies a sense of deep disappointment from the speaker, suggesting the person has failed to live up to their potential and is content with mediocrity. It's a judgment on character, not just a temporary state of failure. +
-===== Character Breakdown ===== +
-  * **没 (méi):** Means "not have" or "to be without." It's one of the most common negating words in Chinese. +
-  * **出 (chū):** Means "to go out," "to emerge," or "to produce." Think of a plant sprouting from the ground or a person "making something of themselves." +
-  * **息 (xī):** Can mean "breath," "rest," or "prospects." In this context, it refers to one's potential, future, or promise. +
-When combined, **没出息 (méi chūxi)** literally translates to "no emerging promise" or "not producing any prospects." It paints a vivid picture of someone who is stagnant and fails to grow or achieve anything of note. +
-===== Cultural Context and Significance ===== +
-The power of **没出息 (méi chūxi)** is rooted in key Chinese cultural values that emphasize collective success and family honor. +
-  * **Familial Expectations:** Chinese culture, influenced by Confucian values, places immense importance on the success of the next generation. The idiom **[[望子成龙]] (wàng zǐ chéng lóng)**—"to hope one's son becomes a dragon"—perfectly captures this. To be called `没出息` by a parent is not just a criticism of your actions (like getting a bad grade); it's a declaration that you are failing in your fundamental duty to bring honor to the family and secure its future. +
-  * **Comparison to Western Culture:** In American or Western culture, calling someone a "loser" or "good-for-nothing" is a harsh personal insult. However, it's largely seen as a judgment of //individual// failure. In contrast, being **没出息 (méi chūxi)** is a communal failure. It implies you are letting down your parents, your ancestors, and your entire family. The weight of this collective expectation makes the term significantly heavier and more painful than its English counterparts. It's less about personal wealth and more about a perceived lack of moral fiber, ambition, and respect for the family's hopes. +
-  * **Face (面子, miànzi):** A person who is `没出息` causes the family to lose "face" or social standing. Their lack of achievement reflects poorly on their upbringing and shames the family in the eyes of the community. +
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China ===== +
-While its roots are deep, **没出息 (méi chūxi)** is a common word in modern conversation. Its severity depends heavily on the context and tone. +
-  * **Parental Scolding:** This is the classic scenario. A parent might yell, "天天就知道玩游戏，真**没出息**！" (Tiāntiān jiù zhīdào wán yóuxì, zhēn méi chūxi!) - "All you do is play video games all day, so pathetic!" Here, it's an expression of extreme frustration and disappointment, often fueled by the feeling of **[[恨铁不成钢]] (hèn tiě bù chéng gāng)** - "hating that iron can't become steel." +
-  * **Self-Deprecating Humor:** Among friends, it can be used in a lighthearted, self-deprecating way. For instance, someone might joke, "我这个周末什么也不想干，就想躺着，我太**没出息**了。" (Wǒ zhège zhōumò shénme yě bùxiǎng gàn, jiù xiǎng tǎngzhe, wǒ tài méi chūxi le.) - "I don't want to do anything this weekend, I just want to lie down. I'm so worthless/unambitious." This usage is common among younger generations, sometimes linking to the concept of **[[躺平]] (tǎng píng)**, or "lying flat." +
-  * **Serious Insult:** In a heated argument between partners, colleagues, or rivals, calling someone `没出息` is a grave insult to their character, ambition, and overall worth as a person. It is meant to hurt and belittle. +
-===== Example Sentences ===== +
-  * **Example 1:** (Parental Scolding) +
-    * 你看看人家的孩子，都考上名牌大学了，你呢？真**没出息**！ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ kànkan rénjiā de háizi, dōu kǎoshàng míngpái dàxué le, nǐ ne? Zhēn **méi chūxi**! +
-    * English: Look at other people's kids, they all got into famous universities, and you? You're so unpromising! +
-    * Analysis: This is a classic use case. The comparison to others is a common tactic, and `没出息` serves as the ultimate expression of disappointment in a child's perceived lack of achievement. +
-  * **Example 2:** (Self-Deprecation) +
-    * 我承认我就是个**没出息**的人，我最大的梦想就是每天睡到自然醒。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ chéngrèn wǒ jiùshì ge **méi chūxi** de rén, wǒ zuìdà de mèngxiǎng jiùshì měitiān shuì dào zìrán xǐng. +
-    * English: I admit I'm a pathetic/unambitious person; my biggest dream is just to wake up naturally every day. +
-    * Analysis: Used humorously and ironically. The speaker is playfully rejecting societal pressure to be highly ambitious, framing a simple desire as a sign of being `没出息`. +
-  * **Example 3:** (Criticizing a Partner) +
-    * 你能不能有点追求？别整天跟这帮**没出息**的朋友混在一起！ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ néng bùnéng yǒudiǎn zhuīqiú? Bié zhěngtiān gēn zhè bāng **méi chūxi** de péngyou hùn zài yīqǐ! +
-    * English: Can you have a little ambition? Stop hanging out with this group of good-for-nothing friends all day! +
-    * Analysis: Here, `没出息` is a serious criticism, used to describe the speaker's friends and implies they are a bad influence. It carries a strong negative judgment. +
-  * **Example 4:** (Workplace Context) +
-    * 他在公司干了十年，还是个小职员，真是**没出息**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā zài gōngsī gàn le shí nián, háishì ge xiǎo zhíyuán, zhēnshì **méi chūxi**. +
-    * English: He's worked at the company for ten years and is still a junior employee. He's really got no prospects. +
-    * Analysis: A harsh judgment of a colleague's career trajectory. It implies the lack of promotion is due to a personal failing (lack of drive) rather than external circumstances. +
-  * **Example 5:** (General Observation) +
-    * 一个男人，三十岁了还靠父母养着，会被人看作很**没出息**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Yī ge nánrén, sānshí suì le hái kào fùmǔ yǎngzhe, huì bèi rén kànzuò hěn **méi chūxi**. +
-    * English: A man who is 30 years old and still relies on his parents to support him will be seen as very pathetic/unpromising. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence describes a social norm. It shows what kind of behavior is widely considered to be `没出息` in modern Chinese society. +
-  * **Example 6:** (In an argument) +
-    * 我当初真是瞎了眼才会嫁给你这么个**没出息**的男人！ +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ dāngchū zhēnshì xiā le yǎn cái huì jià gěi nǐ zhème ge **méi chūxi** de nánrén! +
-    * English: I must have been blind to have married a good-for-nothing man like you! +
-    * Analysis: This is an extremely hurtful and serious insult, used to express deep regret and contempt in a relationship. +
-  * **Example 7:** (Describing a choice) +
-    * 为了安逸的生活放弃了梦想，他觉得自己很**没出息**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wèile ānyì de shēnghuó fàngqì le mèngxiǎng, tā juéde zìjǐ hěn **méi chūxi**. +
-    * English: He felt he was very pathetic for giving up on his dreams in exchange for a comfortable life. +
-    * Analysis: This shows the internal conflict. `没出息` here is a self-judgment, reflecting a feeling of guilt or shame for not pursuing a more ambitious path. +
-  * **Example 8:** (Encouragement through negative motivation) +
-    * 你想一辈子都这么**没出息**吗？快点振作起来！ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ xiǎng yībèizi dōu zhème **méi chūxi** ma? Kuài diǎn zhènzuò qǐlái! +
-    * English: Do you want to be this pathetic for your whole life? Pull yourself together! +
-    * Analysis: A form of "tough love." The speaker uses the harsh term `没出息` to shock the listener into taking action. It's meant to motivate, albeit aggressively. +
-  * **Example 9:** (About quitting) +
-    * 这点困难就把你打倒了？你太**没出息**了！ +
-    * Pinyin: Zhè diǎn kùnnan jiù bǎ nǐ dǎ dǎo le? Nǐ tài **méi chūxi** le! +
-    * English: This little difficulty defeated you? You're too spineless/pathetic! +
-    * Analysis: This links `没出息` to a lack of resilience or grit. It's not just about long-term ambition, but also about the character to overcome immediate challenges. +
-  * **Example 10:** (Contrasting with its antonym) +
-    * 他哥哥很**有出息**，是个大老板，而他自己却很**没出息**，什么都不做。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā gēge hěn **yǒu chūxi**, shì ge dà lǎobǎn, ér tā zìjǐ què hěn **méi chūxi**, shénme dōu bù zuò. +
-    * English: His older brother is very accomplished/promising, he's a big boss, but he himself is very good-for-nothing and doesn't do anything. +
-    * Analysis: This example directly contrasts the term with its antonym, `有出息 (yǒu chūxi)`, highlighting the meaning through opposition. +
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes ===== +
-  * **Don't Use It Casually:** For learners, the biggest mistake is underestimating the word's power. Never use it to describe a boss, a teacher, an elder, or a new acquaintance, even if you think their behavior fits. It is a very personal and often inflammatory judgment. Reserve it for joking with close friends or for understanding its use in media. +
-  * **False Friend: "Unsuccessful" vs. "没出息"** +
-    * "Unsuccessful" is a neutral description of an outcome. For example, "His business venture was //unsuccessful//." (他的创业项目**不成功** - Tā de chuàngyè xiàngmù bù chénggōng). This doesn't judge his character. +
-    * Calling him **没出息 (méi chūxi)** because his business failed is a harsh character attack. It implies he failed because he is inherently lazy, cowardly, or unambitious. One can be "unsuccessful" but still be seen as **有出息 (yǒu chūxi)**—promising and ambitious—if they tried their best and plan to try again. +
-  * **Incorrect Usage Example:** +
-    * **Incorrect:** ~~他的考试没通过，他很没出息。~~ (Tā de kǎoshì méi tōngguò, tā hěn méi chūxi.) +
-    * **Why it's wrong:** Failing a single exam doesn't make someone `没出息`. It just means they failed the exam. This usage is an over-the-top, overly harsh judgment. +
-    * **Correct (Neutral):** 他没通过考试。(Tā méi tōngguò kǎoshì.) - He didn't pass the exam. +
-    * **Correct (Harsh Judgment):** A parent might say: "这么简单的考试都通不过，你真**没出息**！" (Zhème jiǎndān de kǎoshì dōu tōng bùguò, nǐ zhēn méi chūxi!) - "You can't even pass such a simple exam, you're so pathetic!" The context of frustration makes the word appropriate. +
-===== Related Terms and Concepts ===== +
-  * [[有出息]] (yǒu chūxi) - The direct antonym: promising, accomplished, to have a bright future. +
-  * [[出息]] (chūxi) - The root noun: promise, prospects, future potential. +
-  * [[窝囊废]] (wōnangfèi) - A much stronger, cruder synonym: a worthless/spineless person, a total loser. It's more insulting and vulgar. +
-  * [[废物]] (fèiwù) - A very strong synonym meaning "trash" or "useless person." Extremely derogatory. +
-  * [[没本事]] (méi běnshi) - To lack ability or skills. This is different from `没出息`. One can have `本事` (skills) but be `没出息` (unambitious). `没本事` is about capability; `没出息` is about character and drive. +
-  * [[躺平]] (tǎng píng) - "Lying flat." A modern slang term for rejecting the "rat race" and embracing a life of minimal effort. Older generations often view this attitude as being `没出息`. +
-  * [[望子成龙]] (wàng zǐ chéng lóng) - "To hope one's son becomes a dragon." The cultural idiom for having high hopes for your children's success, which is the root cause for much `没出息`-related criticism. +
-  * [[恨铁不成钢]] (hèn tiě bù chéng gāng) - "To hate that iron cannot become steel." An idiom describing the feeling of frustration and disappointment one feels toward someone who fails to live up to expectations, perfectly capturing the emotion behind calling a loved one `没出息`.+